How voting with my daughter reminded me that we’re allowed to grow beyond who we used to be.
I’m a little embarrassed to admit that I used to say, “I don’t get into politics.”
I thought staying neutral meant staying uninvolved. Paying attention felt overwhelming, and it was easier to tell myself that politics wasn’t for me.
Over time, that changed. I became more aware of how decisions affect people’s lives. My belief in humanity and the dignity of others began asking more of me. I wanted to understand what was happening and take part in the choices I could make.
On Tuesday, my daughter came with me to vote.
I had researched the candidates and brought notes to help me remember where they stood. I stepped into the voting booth knowing what mattered to me, and she stood beside me as I made my choices.
Afterward, we counted the years until she’ll be old enough to cast her own ballot. She’s excited.
I was grateful that she got to see me vote. I was also struck by how different this moment would have felt to the younger version of me.
What I Learned
I don’t judge the person who once wanted to stay out of politics. She understood the world differently then.
I’m proud that I allowed myself to learn more and change my mind. I’ve become more willing to use my voice in ways that reflect what I believe.
My daughter saw me vote that day. I hope she also saw that growing up doesn’t mean holding on to every belief you’ve ever had. We can keep paying attention, asking questions, and deciding how we want to show up.
Coaching Takeaway
It can feel uncomfortable to admit that something important to us has changed. We may wonder what it means to move beyond a belief or identity we’ve carried for years.
But changing your mind can be a sign that you’re listening more closely to yourself and the world around you.
Sometimes the shift is quiet. You do your research. You make a choice. And with someone you love standing beside you, you realize you’re living more fully in line with your values.
Reflection Questions
Is there an old belief about yourself that no longer fits?
What experiences or values have changed the way you see it?
Where would you like to use your voice more intentionally?
What small action could reflect the person you are today?
